So you're looking for the perfect gift for that special someone in your life.
LOOK NO FURTHER! The following idea is specifically targeted at guys! Girls, you've got this Holiday down pretty good, but if you like the idea, I'm sure your man would appreciate it too!
So, GUYS!
It's that time of year again when we get to act like we love spending our hard earned cash on things that won't last like flowers and chocolates, maybe even some edible unmentionables...You get my drift...
So I have an idea, follow me here!
I have the perfect Valentine's Day song
Beautiful to let your girl know how much you care about her and how beautiful she is (guys, if your girl is not beautiful, this might be a good time to either
A) lie, althought I don't recommend that
B) Find a new girl, a beautiful one this time or C) Dig down deep to find the beauty in her!
Before you brush this idea off hear me out! This is totally FREE and won't cost you a dime. All it will take is a little bit of time and a minimal amount of courage and creativity to blow your girl away (I will go out on a limb and say there's a 10% chance she might even shed a tear)! That would be a welcome change from the silent cold shoulder you normally get from her because you forgot to do something special for her!
So, here's the step by step plan to a successful (remember 10% chance of her crying in a good way) Valentine's Day surprise!
1) Go download
Beautiful at any of these sites (there's tons, so no excuses...you can do this)!
Myspace (make sure you allow pop-ups)
ReverbNation click the down arrow right of the song
Virb
SonicBids click the audio tab at the top
mattthien.com
2) Either burn it to a CD or put it on your mp3 player, ipod, whatever...you know how to do that right? If not, there's seriously NO HOPE FOR YOU TO PULL THIS OFF! I'm just kidding, stop crying! Just figure it out!
3) Optional step, but HIGHLY recommended - sit down alone and think about how/why she is beautiful to you! This is important because women like you to show emotion (which most of us guys are REALLY bad at). This is the point at which you will write a poem or just a simple list of how/why she is beautiful to you. Take your time and make it meaningful!
I'll let you in on a secret - ready? It doesn't matter how good or bad the poem or list is, your girl will love it! Why you ask? Because it came from you which shows you took the time to think this out (don't tell her you had a step by step plan that outlined all this, then we're both screwed!) and you're showing emotion (remember women love emotion).
Once again, the poem or list is optional however, highly recommended! The chances of her shedding a tear increase to 50% if you take the time to write a poem or list and read it to her after you play her the song! Still with me? Good! Let's move on...
4) Decide when and where (make sure you have the CD, mp3 and poem or list available) you're going to woo her and make her cry (remember emotion boys, show real emotion, not that fake stuff we're so good at showing)! This doesn't have to be 'the perfect place' - just make sure you have her full attention, so lock the kids in their rooms (I meant dogs, sorry) and make sure the TV is OFF!!! NO DISTRACTIONS! Ready to put on your game face? Let's finish this thing!
5) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT STEP GUYS! DON'T MESS THIS ONE UP!
-Sit her down and tell her that you have a surprise for her.
-Tell her you stumbled upon this song and thought it told the story of exactly how you feel about her
-Play the song (just watch her, she'll love it knowing you're staring at her deeply)
-After the song is over tell her you have another surprise for her
-reach in your pocket and pull out your poem or list (make this dramatic if you can)
-Tell her that you wrote her a poem describing how beautiful she is to you (this is where she might start crying)
-Take a deep breath (just do it for effect even if you're not nervous!)
-Read her the poem (deliver it in the realest way you've ever done! Really mean what you're reading!)
-she'll probably beat you to this step, but if she doesn't...after you're done, embrace her and hold her tight and give her a kiss (if you're into that kinda thing)!
-Last step! Secretly message me and tell me your story of how it all went! I would love to hear back!
Good Luck - you'll do fine!
Valentine's Day Expert (yeah right!)
Matt Thien
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